American Christianity's Most Popular Excuses (For Not Following Jesus)

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By Stephen Mattson

Then Jesus told his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.  For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? Matthew 16: 24-26

It's not easy to follow the example of person who sacrificially gave everything, commanded us to "take up our cross," and was horrifically tortured and crucified. Emulating Jesus is even harder within a society that idolizes comfort, security, wealth, and power. Here are six typical excuses Christians often use to avoid paying the divine costs of serving Christ:

"It's a Political Agenda"

Loving your neighbor as yourself, fighting systemic and societal racism, empowering the poor, helping refugees and immigrants, and caring for the environment are good, noble, and Christ-like causes—yet a large portion of American Christians refuse to support such holy endeavors. Why? Because many think it's all part of a political agenda.

Despite strong scriptural basis, and the precedent shown by Jesus himself throughout the gospel, we'll often refuse to participate in righteous causes simply to avoid anything "liberal" or "conservative"—no matter how Christ-like they may be.

"Nowhere in the Bible does it say that!" / "You're taking that out of context!"

The bible is easily weaponized. Scriptural support is drastically subjective dependent upon whether or not it supports our worldly agendas.

For example, despite countless commands to help the poor and oppressed, some Christians will retort: "But where exactly does it say America is supposed to take in Syrian refugees?!"

Regardless of the obvious teachings that it's Christ-like to heal the sick, fight injustice, and uplift the downtrodden, Christians can angrily refute: "What chapter mentions that we're supposed to raise taxes in order to help the homeless?!"

Unless the Bible explicitly states that an exact modern-day scenario is holy (which it doesn't) it's easy to remain stubbornly complacent in our faith, willing to prioritize ourselves over anybody else and justify it with Scripture.

"The Old Law"

In addition to manipulating contextual applications and twisting meanings to whatever slant is most convenient, we also love to use the Old Testament—the Old Covenant—as a way to trump the New Covenant brought in by Jesus.

"Love your enemies?!  Didn't we read that the Israelites crushed their enemies at Jericho?"

For every example that Jesus sets for Christians to follow, we're armed with a litany of Old Testament references waiting to circumvent Christ's humble, sacrificial, selfless, and loving life. We know if we just focus on the Old Law, we have an incomplete picture of God's nature as personified by Christ himself in the New Testament…but sometimes we do it anyway.

"We're Supposed to Submit to Governing Authorities"

This excuse is especially useful when our particular political party is in power. These often-misinterpreted verses in Romans 13 excuse us from caring for the foreigner, the immigrant, the refugee, the oppressed, the maligned, the suffering, and anyone else who is routinely the victim of one-sided and narrow-minded partisan politics and nationalistic agendas.

Use military action that will surely kill thousands? Submit to authorities. Destroy the environment? Submit to authorities. Close our borders to the most vulnerable? Submit to authorities. Withhold educational opportunities to those most in need? Submit to authorities. Participate in xenophobic politics? Submit to authorities. Restrict funding to the most needy? Submit to authorities.

The irony is that by submitting to authorities we're often not submitting to Christ, who is supposed to be the ultimate authority (and who was killed, if we remember, for refusing to submit to the ruling Roman authorities of his day).

"The Divinity of Christ"

This is perhaps the most mind-blowing excuse of them all, based upon the fallacy that because Jesus was Divine and purposefully fulfilling ancient prophecies throughout the New Testament, we're excused from following his example.

"Jesus only got arrested and didn't submit to authorities because it was part of the Divine plan to die and rise again…but surely we aren't called to do that!"

Thus, the entire reason Christians worship Jesus—His Divinity—is also a major excuse we give for not following him. As previously mentioned, verses from the Old Testament, and various other contextual passages will be used in whatever way necessary to subvert the perfect example of Jesus himself! We'll find almost any rationale and example to not follow Jesus to the same radical degree that his disciples and earliest followers did (most of whom were eventually martyred).

"God is in control and completely Sovereign!"

This is the catchall excuse that allows anything and everything to fall under the guise of God's sovereignty. No matter what sort of evil, corruption, hypocrisy, and anti-gospel thing is happening, it's tempting for us to say that "God has a plan—and reason—for everything" while simultaneously choosing not to condemn sin and evil, instead remaining passive, apathetic, and even aggressively obstructive to those in need.

This is the escape clause used to ignore the litany of verses and instructions God gives us to actively pursue justice, help others, and passionately love the world around us.

All of these excuses are common, and we're all guilty of using them at some point during our lives. But right now American Christianity is at a crossroads where we must decide whether to follow Christ towards self-sacrifice or follow political agendas towards self-preservation. God help us.

Stephen Mattson is the author of The Great Reckoning: Surviving a Christianity That Looks Nothing Like Christ.

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7 Responses

  1. I'm thankful for God's word and reminders that He is no respecter of persons. For God so loved the world takes on a different meaning.

  2. Tony says:

    We are in the world but not of it. We have a choice of living in God's kingdom, under His kingship or living in the world. When we live in God's Kingdom we need to be obedient to God. Therefore in issues like the Muslims, sexuality, and killing unborn children we should be obedient God's teachings irregardless to the law of the land that condones that kind of behavior. We will be held accountable to God not the government.

    • chris harper says:

      I don't know if you know this but Judaism, Christianity and ISLAM ALL trace their lineage to ONE man: Abram, Abraham, Ibrahim. In the name of Christianity Europeans have done every evil under the sun in God's name. Sorry, but Islam/Christianity same coin, different side.

      Sexuality: Do you think people CHOOSE to be gay? I have gay people in my family. I have had gay friends when I was in the military. They all had ONE thing in common if they had to choose they would NOT choose to be GAY! My younger cousin is a minister and he goes on the old "This is an abomination…" Hellfire cruise! Then I ask him, "If it's a CHOICE to be GAY, did you CHOOSE to be STRAIGHT"? He can never answer that simple question.

      Killing unborn children: LOL! I agree! Because in the OT GOD makes sure they are FULLY ALIVE, AWARE and BREATHING! Right before some Iron/Bronze age Israelite soldier rams his sword thru him! Right after he MURDERS his parents because God told him so. And you can save it because at 47 and being a Christian myself I have heard all the far fetched excuses, and I have gotten good with LOGICAL answers.

      God gave them X amount of years to repent

      Prove it! Why would Canaanites or any other civilization listen to a "god" other than their own. Would you pray to Allah? Probably not. So how could they know this was the "true" god and not some demon.

      The children would grow up to be evil.

      If God KNEW this then why create them in the FIRST place? Only to give them a HORRIBLE death while they are FULLY AWARE?

      After they were killed God took their souls to Heaven to be with Him.


      As for "baby killing"… Why do most Christians IGNORE the ammo AGAINST them when they start judging. God has killed babies, children, toddlers, infants, fetuses, etc. Either by DIRECT ACTION or PROXY. But instead of admitting they DON'T KNOW (which I do because I don't want to look stupid trying to defend genocide as being "good" because God did it. If it were anyone else they'd be tried in The Hague as a war criminal!) they come up with some WHOPPERS! Or change the subject! Can't wait for these "reasons" to be "explained":

      1 Samuel 15:3 God commands the death of helpless "suckling" infants. This literally means that the children god killed were still nursing.
      Psalms 135:8 & 136:10 Here god is praised for slaughtering little babies.
      In conclusion I shall end this list with a verse that should keep the pro lifers in check. It is Romans 13: 1-7
      "Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which god has established. The authorities that exist have been established by god. Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what god has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and he shall commend you. For he is god's servant to do you good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword for nothing. He is god's servant, an agent of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. There fore it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also because of conscience.
      This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are god's servants, who give their full time to governing. Give everyone what you owe him: If you owe taxes, pay taxes, if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor."
      Clearly it is the job of Christians to obey the laws, and the laws of this country clearly state that abortion is legal. So too should Christians respect and honor that law. God commands them to NOT disobey, which entails attempting to get the law overturned. If god wanted abortion to be illegal he wouldn't have appointed authorities to make it legal.

  3. AJ says:

    I thank God for this past election because after 37 years as a compassionate conservative it served to open my eyes to the hypocrisy of most of the so-called "Christian" conservatives (who supported trump), and with whom I have had to argue online because they hate the poor, esp. the ones they see as taking "their" money. I look at Matthew 25 in a whole new way now.

  4. Daniel Mann says:

    "Loving your neighbor as yourself, fighting systemic and societal racism, empowering the poor, helping refugees and immigrants, and caring for the environment are good, noble, and Christ-like causes—yet a large portion of American Christians refuse to support such holy endeavors. Why? Because many think it's all part of a political agenda."

    "FIGHTING SYSTEMIC AND SOCIETAL RACISM": I find this kind of language needlessly inflammatory. If systematic justice was being practiced by this nation, then it should be exposed. However, many of us just don't see it. Instead, the allegations of sinister wrongdoing just increase the hatred and racial divide.

    "EMPOWERING THE POOR": This requires wisdom. While this is a Biblical concern, entitlement programs have achieved the very opposite goal.

    "HELPING REFUGEES AND IMMIGRANTS": We must. However, this help should begin with our own brethren – the most persecuted of all: Galatians 6:10 "So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith." Why aren't you advocating specifically for the Christians who would be grateful for such help, not the Muslims who want to destroy and place us all under sharia and a worldwide Caliphate, according to surveys, Islamic history and writings.

    • John watson says:

      Galatians 6 verse 10: regarding helping refugees and immigrants. The most persecuted people today are those brothers and sisters and even small children suffering the Indoctrinated evil of those "carrying" gods name in vain and attributing their work with god's approval which is the WORST form of blasphemy as in the third commandment.
      It appears very few have been allowed immigration here at this point. Why, as the body of Christ, do we seem to remain so silent on this?

  5. Mariel Q Davis says:

    To me, it comes down to Jesus' statement that the most important law to follow is to love God with everything in you, and love your neighbors to the same extent that you love yourself. He was speaking of religious law, because that's what he was asked about. But where government law contradicts this, how can a Christian obey it? And my neighbors are from all places and walks of life, not just white American citizens. The parable of the Good Samaritan illuminates that concept. So what else is there to do but to try one's best to obey Christ? I may even intellectually disagree with other Christians about what loving my neighbor consists of. But the requirement stands.

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